Short Stories
It was just the end of prescribed steps
The end-game is where it really begins
You get to make your own goals
Thailand Story
Games like Backgammon teach the value of creating expanded ways for luck to happen
Simultaneous projects can help expand those opportunities
It did for co-founding AltspaceVR
socializing at a distance via game technology
Reporter Story
Especially as a founder, your role changes even when your title doesn't
Feeling overwhelmed -> There's an aspect of your role you haven't learned how to do well yet
Sometimes the role your ego wants isn't the role you as a whole really want
We started by making a maximally flexible system
We only grew once we used that to learn where to focus
I fought the focus sometimes, but it was critical
Comedy Story
Altspace users came from all walks of life
You learn a lot about cultures when someone from Brazil is suddenly teleported next to someone from Saudi Arabia
Diversity brings pragmatic advantages
Women at the company were critical in recognizing and building important anti-harassment tools
Rainbow was very helpful with this
Maze Story
HAH Story
Most important challenges require rallying multiple people
You can notice when people are being agents in the world
Believe people when they show you who they are
Receiving feedback well and taking responsibility are crucial
Work with people who are working on themselves
Worry & regret don’t help
Planning, reflection, accountability & processing do
It's sad to loose something you and others put a ton of care into
It's still best to work on things that can make you feel that way
It takes work to unwind what is "you" from a project you worked on
Boat Story
You get tossed in a dungeon, or you stow away on a spaceship
You loose the things that you felt you were relying on
This is part of the hero's journey, embrace it
It becomes evident that you still have what you need
Your greater mission can get you through
Stoicism is awesome (and not what it sounds like)
Therapy is giving yourself "upgrades" not "reaching healthiness"
Steel-manning 'woo' can be great
Combining ethical frameworks for better choices
Notice when you are "playing a role" vs being an agent
Under-served causes and oblique approaches can create extra impact
Doing things that otherwise would not happen is ideal
Strategy games teach you to build passive income systems
The earlier the better
IRL these are residuals, businesses, stocks, crypto, etc
These aren't easy, but keep an eye for oportunities
Finding new applications for existing skills can be rewarding
"Where can my background (game tech) apply to the physical world?"
a character customizer for designing human tissues
Embracing character architypes that resonate with you can keep projects engaging
You'd be surprised how big of a building you can light up with a normal projector..
an activism tool for projecting GIF animations on surfaces
Security Story
Reminding yourself that others are fighting the good fight alongside you fends off despair.
a podcast about ways to create a brighter future
Life is better with a quest!
I'm building an app to help people find and do quests that matter
Collaborators and testers are welcome
gavan@wilhite.io
List Making
Expansion <> Contraction
Game Design Lenses
Rory's Story Cubes